HSPs, attend. First we have this outrageously negative and misinformed post about sensitivity from a life coach and “mental health administrator,” whatever that may be. Scary to think she might be “administering” the mental health of HSPs by taking their money and telling them they aren’t trying hard enough to “get over” their obnoxious sensitivity. Hint: You can leave comments. I suggest being kind, factual and constructive, since she was none of these.
Don’t listen to bad-mouthing! You are beautiful!!
Also, the Wikipedia entry on sensitivity
has lately been labelled as a “fringe theory.” Admittedly, the article was not as thorough as it could’ve been, and I can only applaud Wikipedia’s general intention to improve the quality of psychology-related entries, but have they considered what the effect might be on a given population to have a category they identify with suddenly labelled “fringe”? The person who applied the designation admitted he didn’t have the time to follow up, which strikes me as highly reprehensible. I mean you, Genandrar!
Most of the criticisms of the article as it was in April, when the “fringe theories” tag was applied, have now been addressed, and I would suggest that it is past time for Wikipedia to remove that tag from the HSP entry. I would also suggest they develop a more sensitive way to improve psychology entries without dissing people. And what, pray tell, is “appropriate weight to the mainstream view” (emphasis all mine)? With that kind of thinking, kiss innovation goodbye.
Inhale… aaaaaannnnd exhaaaale.
The universe is vast. Annoying humans are transitory.
By now, you are probably ready for this delightful post, chockful of suggestions for HSPs that are actually insightful and useful (take note, Faydra Rector):
When You Need Stillness
Love her image of the mind as a ping-pong table. I was just thinking, “this woman has got to be an HSP,” when she said she was. I do so enjoy being right :)
And on the introvert side, we have another charming post:
12 Problems Only Introverts Understand
It gives me hope that one day we might enjoy Friday dialogues like this one:
What are you doing this weekend?
I’m going to stay inside completely.
Oh, that sounds wonderful, I’m so jealous. I have to go to a party.
Oh, you poor thing. Take a hot bath and don’t call me after.